Sometimes I over react and expect too much out of my near and dear ones. But they wont say it even because they know it could worsen the situation. I end up hurting myself when expectations are not met. I try not to be one of those who push themselves over others to get things done in their way. But somehow, sometimes I end up being the one. That makes the other more uncomfortable than myself. What to say, what to do everything seems to be illogical at that moment. I am important for them, I do realize that. But sometimes I want it to be proved every now and then. Now thats a 'situation'. That's the problem that I, myself would have to deal with. 'I' would have to come out of it, get over it.
I get jealous, I get mad, I get worried, I get curious. That's only because I care.
Remedy - Stop thinking. Stop expecting. Live along with what is right there. Dont try to mould things your way. Learn it like a lesson. Life would be more easy that way. :)
hmmm!! nice one... but this remedies of yours (stop expctn & stop thinkn) is practically next to imposible. when you care for someone , expectations arise!! but when you really understand someone, you'll understand the reason for why that person behaved in such a way that your expectations were let down!! & when you understand the reason... problem is automatically solved!! :)
ReplyDeleteBe patient & be calm!! this is the real remedy... then life would be more easy -> this easy!! :)
its not next to impossible but difficult to achieve..!!!
ReplyDeletethrough continuous negligence one can do so...keeping urselves involved in other things wid no tym for such thots can lead u to such a state..!!
n yea...being patient is in my attitude.. :)